A hangout with the whole team (Sam, Shaan, Ari & Cassie)
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Publicly recorded strategy discussion where the team tests a live session, integrates pre-work from members, and shares how advance questions can shape a more valuable meeting.
Behind-the-scenes planning with Sam, Shaan, Ari, and Cassie as they overhaul My First Million: clip strategies, 90-day sprints, and a buzzworthy events/ newsletter plan.
Summary
Sam, Shaan, Ari, and Cassie gather for a candid, public strategy session about growing the My First Million brand. They discuss pre-work for meetings, the power of authentic, curiosity-led episodes, and the team’s surprisingly loose grip on everyday ops like social accounts. The crew debates clip culture, proposing three-pronged growth: relentless clipping (especially on X, Instagram, TikTok, LinkedIn), a killer Clipper Army incentive, and smarter guest formats that mix high-profile names with “unknown but insightful” voices. They brainstorm a 90-day sprint to build a community of clip creators, with a budget-minded, aggressive push to test what actually moves metrics. Cassie is tasked with launching the Clipper Army, while Sam and Shaan outline formats (Tiny Desk–style in-person sessions, Make-It style episodes) and a robust newsletter that distills best learnings from each episode. They also touch on events—curated, low-friction experiences that pair content with real-world connections—and the balance between long-form conversations and micro-content. Throughout, they stress staying true to curiosity over chasing headlines, and they acknowledge gaps in internal systems (passwords, social accounts) that echo their broader growth ambitions. The conversation also surfaces practical tweaks like better pre-prep questions, screen-share-ready artifacts, and a ritual question to close each show. It’s messy, ambitious, and refreshingly honest about what’s working and what’s not.
Key Takeaways
- Pre-work in advance is a proven method; Sam shared questions in advance to sharpen the strategy discussion and extract deeper insights.
- Clip strategy should be aggressively scaled: three to four standout moments per episode can become social-native clips across X, Instagram, TikTok, and LinkedIn.
- Cassie is assigned to build a Clipper Army within 90 days, with a clear target and budget to fuel high-quality clips and distribution.
- They’re leaning toward high-profile guests plus compelling unknowns, aiming for both buzz and depth, with formats inspired by Tiny Desk and Make‑It-type episodes.
- Newsletter as a growth asset: a weekly or periodic pull‑out of episode learnings, guest notes, and upcoming guests, potentially written by an experienced writer (Diego) to preserve voice.
- Event ideas: a curated 1% listener-focused retreat and lighter, intimate gatherings as alternatives to large live tours; both require careful risk/benefit planning and logistics.
- Internal ops gaps (passwords, social accounts) mirror the broader need for a more professional, scalable media operation, even as they celebrate eight-figure downloads and a six-year run.
Who Is This For?
Essential viewing for My First Million fans and podcasters plotting growth through clip-first social strategies, guest experimentation, and community-building events. It’s especially valuable for teams ready to run 90-day sprints and for listeners curious about how a long-running show stays authentic while evolving its distribution model.
Notable Quotes
"I asked you guys 10 or so questions and there were questions like what's working really well with the podcast right now? What's not working?"
—Sam describes the pre-work method used to drive a more valuable meeting.
"The core product is actually pretty good. I think I would like listening to this podcast and that's a good test."
—Shaan reflects on episodes that energize the team when they’re not chasing headlines.
"Cassie, welcome to the team. In the next 90 days I need you to raise a Clipper Army."
—Direct assignment to Cassie highlighting the strategic clip-distribution push.
"We should do more clips posted on social media where people already are."
—Consensus on making social clips a primary growth channel.
"Newsletter clips and meetups."
—Summarized three-prong plan for growth that includes a newsletter and live/meetup components.
Questions This Video Answers
- How can a podcast turn episodes into social clips that actually drive growth for a brand?
- What is a Clipper Army and how can it scale a podcast's reach in 90 days?
- Should a podcast invest in high-profile guests plus unknowns, and how to structure those episodes for both depth and shareability?
- What would a Make It–style or Tiny Desk–style episode look like for My First Million?
- How can a branded newsletter complement a podcast and what should be included to drive sustained engagement?
My First MillionSam ParhamShaan PuriCassie (MFM team)Clipper ArmyMake It style episodesTiny Desk formatnewsletter strategycontent clippingaudience growth strategy
Full Transcript
Okay, so this was supposed to be private, but we decided to do it in public. As any good influencer would do, we said, "Hey, why do this if we're not going to have the camera on?" So, I guess the setup here is me and Sam are on camera, but you'll also see Ari and Cassie doppelgangers. And Cassie's the new she's the new uh the new girl on the team. And she came on and we were supposed to do kind of like a strategy meeting of like, oh, what are we you're here to help with the podcast?
What are we trying to do again? What's the strategy? And we said, why don't we actually just record it and um we'll just do it live and see what comes out of this session. So that's that's what I'm here to do. Sam, did I is that what you are expecting here? Yes. and we all filled out something in advance. You are the only one who did not submit yours already. Well, okay. Yeah, that's right. I did, but I'm like the I'm like the collator. Okay. So, I what I what I like to do in these situations, and I think anybody should steal this.
I stole this from Amazon when we got acquired there. I I learned this method which is you send um a little bit of pre-work in advance and it makes the meeting so much more interesting and so much more valuable because there's some people are fantastic at thinking on the spot and coming up with insightful, accurate, true, honest things on the spot in front of a large group of people, but that's like 1% of people. Most people don't think very well that way. And so if you actually want to get to the right answer, a really good thing to do is to send out some questions or have people write in advance what they're thinking and then one person's like the the gatherer.
You gather all the materials together and they use that to have a good discussion. And so I asked you guys 10 or so questions and there were questions like what's working really well with the podcast right now? What's not working? What's your biggest pet peeve? What's something we're just stupid for not doing right now? Right? Like just very simple questions. And so I gathered all that and we're not going to use all of it, but I wanted to share some of the most interesting findings. Can I can we just start with the most interesting findings?
The first one is Sam, you had a bit on um almost like the virtue of selfishness. You were basically like I want to do the selfish thing and with with the podcast cuz the there's one way to look at this which is it's all about what should we be doing to be more successful? How do we make this external thing work? and you were just like you said, I want to do the selfish thing and have fun and learn and improve myself. I think others will enjoy that a lot more than us trying to appeal to them in an inauthentic way.
And um it reminded me of the Rick Rubin quote of the best way to serve your audience is to ignore them completely. I actually think I was like nervous to even put that on there cuz I'm like, "Oh, we're going to do a podcast on this and I'm just going to go tell the audience to themselves." Uh uh I just think that so originally you you started this podcast then I came on and for the first three years I don't think you and I ever looked at the data. Um and I couldn't even tell you a bunch of the numbers.
Frankly I I still don't really look at the numbers but every once in a while I get drawn and sucked into this thing where I look at the YouTube numbers cuz those are the most uh public and I start thinking in headlines and I start thinking in what can get the highest clickthrough rates. And then occasionally I suggest we do some of those episodes and we do do some of those episodes and I notice the night before I get the Sunday scaries on a Tuesday night because we record on Wednesdays. I notice that I dislike those the most.
And then I notice there are so many times like when you will tell me a story or we will have a guest like Graham Weaver who I think Graham Weaver is popular so it's maybe not the best example or Sarah Moore who you did a podcast with where we do these podcasts and I leave with more energy than I came in on. And almost always that happens when it's not data driven and it's simply what am I curious about or if I read a book and I'm like I'm so excited to tell Shawn about this or Shawn goes and does something and he goes and visits Austin and I just want to hear his opinion of who he met and what was cool about it.
I am more excited and energized at the end of those than I am at the things where I've done based off of a headline that I think will be popular. Right. That's so true. And I I think we should actually set the stage. Well, I forgot to do this. set the stage on where we're at. So, for those who don't know, started this podcast 6 years ago. We're 822 episodes in. I think we've done something like 115 million downloads of the podcast. And the entire podcast is based off of a stick, which is four words.
It's an empire built on four words. Dude, have you seen this? And and that's that's it. And then it's basically Sam saying that to me and I'm like, no, what is it? and he tells me something that makes me that kind of gets me excited, blows my mind. And then I try to do the same for them. And it's a a giving contest where me and you sit here and we try to do that. That's how I see it. Six years into having a podcast, we are basically a media company. We have never we have never had a social media person.
I didn't even know that we had like social media. You don't know how many times somebody from HubSpot has asked me like, "Hey, does anybody have the Twitter login? Hey, can you can you can like Cassie yesterday was asking she's like, "Hey, there's like a LinkedIn page. Do you know who made that?" I was like, "I have no idea. I didn't even know it existed. We've got like an Instagram account that for years nobody had the password to. We had to like request like a reset." Yeah, we're pretty comically like cartoonishly bad at some of these things.
Hey, so when I was prepping for this meeting, I put all of our MFM numbers, our competitors, our goals into a Claude prompt, and it gave me a 60-day action plan for growing our channels. I want to give it away to you as well. So, if you head to the show notes below, drop your email, we'll send you the prompt that you can use to grow your platforms as well. Sean, what do you want to do? Are there any new initiatives that you want to do this year in the next 12 months? Is there anything you want to do?
You don't want to do? I think most of the things are things I don't want to do. Um, meaning I could come up with a list of like 30 possible things, but I think the real question is like what are the one or two things that might actually change things for the better? You the one I wrote right now is I think our core product is actually pretty good. I think I, you know, I would like listening to this podcast and that's a good test. I don't know if I would listen to the podcast podcast by default because I might not even know it exists or know what what's in it, you know, what would hook me in to doing it in the first place.
And ironically, like some of the things that would hook me in might be like a bigger name guest that I oh, I'm curious to hear what this person has to say about this or oh, there's an interview with this person. I haven't seen what that person is saying or the topic they say is going to be interesting. But that isn't exactly what the main podcast is or it doesn't give me like a feel for what the next episode might be totally different than what that one was. For example, it seems like the main way that podcasts work today is you have the loyal listeners and then you have the samplers.
And the samplers are basically clips that you put in places where people already are that give somebody a bite-size taste of what the real podcast is like. So, for example, I love this podcast, Basement Yard. I've never even listened to the a full episode of it, but I've watched probably 200 clips. And if you tell me, what do you think about that podcast? Oh my god, I love those guys. That podcast is amazing. Never even listen to it, right? But I've listened to so many clips that I feel like I know those guys. I feel like I know the show.
And every one of the clips gives me the same feeling most importantly, right? Like it's not like one is a really deep intellectual thing and the other one's funny. No, every clip is hilarious. I think those guys are hilarious. They seem super likable. Those guys are awesome and that show is funny. If I ever wanted a funny show, like that's where I would go. And so I don't think we're doing a good job of giving out the samples of what's in MFM to give people that frame break or give people that that that inspiration or give people that story or the banter, whatever, in a good enough way where people already are.
So on on I think a lot of our communities on X, for example, and and and they can do amazing things like I was on Christmas. What do you want? You want 10 or 20 clips a day, which is fine. That that sounds like a combative. I don't think that's that's probably too high. Let's take a normal episode in an hour. The challenge would be how do you take um three to four moments from that podcast that are like MFM in a shot version and give that to people and architect those clips in a way that that you me and you would want to share cuz Oh yeah, that was that was a great bit that we talked about.
it's edited tightly enough where people would understand what what it is right away and they would be hooked and they would get the payoff. And if we do that and we share it where people already are consistently, I think that's the number one thing that we don't do a good job of. That seems to be the smart thing that every other podcaster does. Like I was on Chris Williamson's podcast. We did an episode. I thought the episode was fine, like good. You know, if you looked at his YouTube channel, it wasn't like a 10x outlier.
It was probably on the lower side of his normal episodes. But for 3 weeks, his team has just been clipping from that episode. Little stories, little nuggets from that episode. He put one up on on X and Elon replied to the some story I told on there. That same thing could have happened maybe 20 times from MFM and it doesn't happen and you just don't it's like the dog's not barking. We don't know what we're missing because it's not obvious. It's invisible to us. Okay, that sounds great. That's a great idea. Awesome clips posted on social media where people already are.
Instagram. Yep. Uh, Tik Tok and and X and LinkedIn. Sure. Oh, is this the my first million first? The viral one I'm going off. Wow. He's pretty quick to act there. The dad instincts kicked in. How do we go viral? What if Sam's apartment catches fire during the episode and saves I think we should make this more meeting like? What do you think, Sean? You're saying it's boring as an episode or what are you saying? You're so different in strategy meetings. I'm being different now. You're being you're being podcast. Sean, I wasn't aware of that, but you're probably right.
What's the main difference? You're more um you're not harsher, but you're just more like blunt and do more. Wait, hang on. Hang on. This is You're more of a dick. Leave this in, too. This is great. Okay. Um, yeah, just make it more how we talk when we're talking and all right. Can you give an impression of how I am off off podcast when we're doing strate whenever we're talking about what we should do or not do? All right. What's not working? Why are we doing this? This is stupid. Someone someone can do something that doesn't suck.
Yeah, we're doing three things. Like, why aren't we doing that? Yeah. Sean chastised someone on the team and he gave his answer. He goes, "That's a stupid answer. uh give a better answer. Okay, but his his last point is good. Basically, we do need more clips. We need him to be on X and we need to be on Instagram. You know what? One of the things that we grew most from was when we made this bounty where we just said we're going to give five grand to the person who clips the most that we like and we got 20 million impressions in one month, the first month, which interestingly there's all these like things called clipper armies now.
That was like one of the that was like one of the first examples of doing that and we didn't even know what we were doing and it was incredibly successful. We stumbled ass backwards into that where we were just like hey what if we honestly by the way the reason we did that we didn't trust ourselves to be doing a good job of this. It's like I don't think our own team is going to do a good job of this. How about the crowd? Anybody who does this will give you a prize. And two two very interesting things happened.
First it was awesome. We got so much spread from it. The second, the guy who had the most viral clips ended up creating a company doing short form content, sold it to Morning Brew and like, you know, had the sort of successful business come out of the whole thing. And then, by the way, in hilarious news, we then immediately stopped doing what was working, forgot about it, and uh haven't talked about it since since then until today. So, my opinion is we should a on our internal team, we should post way more on all platforms, and b we should do another one of those things, and we could either do the exact same thing or we could just pay a CPM.
So, for example, if you have a video that gets 100,000 views, you get I don't know what the going rates are, but I think it's cheap. I think it's like a dollar per thousand views. Um, something like that. But basically, it's like, all right, you got you got 100,000 views, you get a grand or I can't do the math, but you guys understand what I'm saying. So, Ari told me that I should be more blunt and direct as I am uh in not this podcast format. So, I'll do that. Cassie, welcome to the team. Um, you have lots of good ideas about the community and this and that.
Here's what we want to do. In the next 90 days, I need you to raise a Clipper army. Get this [ __ ] going. And we should, you know, you have 24 hours to basically set a target. That makes sense. Like, you pick you pick your goal. But what we fundamentally are trying to do is copy a a working playbook that, you know, has worked for everyone from Andrew Tate to, you know, whoever else, you know, on on the clipping side. And we want to use money to incentivize these like 16 to 22 year old kids who are just awesome at editing and making clips to post clips about our stuff on social.
Not on our own brand account necessarily. We'll take the best and we'll put it there, but we want to um set a very aggressive stretch goal and aggressively raise this army of clippers and we'll do that for 90 days and then we'll check in in and at the end of the 90 days and decide whether we continue or not. You could be basically stupidly aggressive for 90 days so we get a clear answer versus tiptoeing into it and then we won't really know in 90 days because oh we're we just we're just getting started. We haven't really found out yet.
Like go go go all out. Spend more money than you think you need. Um be a little bit looser with the controls about it and go, you know, go for more scale. Uh and let's see what happens. Okay. So in my opinion big rock one clipper army. Um uh okay. Let me let me give you a couple. Um, one thing that I don't know 100% Sean if I want to do it, but we should consider it. We've been talking about events for forever. I think I would be open to like a two or three venue tour.
Um, I would want it to make I would have to figure out if family can come or not and if we can make that happen. But I would be open. But the shtick that we have needs to be easy because, and I don't mean easy like in a lazy way, but easy where we could kick ass at it because performing in front of 2,000 people like we have before. It's kind of hard to make it entertaining. And I've been to a lot of live podcast tapings with a lot of people, almost all of them suck.
And so we would have to like really hone in on a format. So I would say I would be open to an event. But let me give you a few more uh ideas. Wait, hang on. Before we do that, let's stick to events. Like what would Sean what would you do if you could if it was worth driving an hour for? What would you do? I think okay here's what here's my interest in an event. I don't want to do an event for money. I don't want to do an event for the ego hit. I got that.
You know for the record you would like to get paid for it. Sure. Sure. Making money is fine, but that wouldn't be the motivation to do it. Same thing with like it's awesome to walk into like a theater or an arena or whatever the thing is and be like wow all these people are here for us. This is awesome. And like there's a line of people trying to take selfies and like showing my wife like look it's real like this is a thing and like yeah like you know my kids do is this am I cool to you yet?
And they're like no can we go? Um so so that wouldn't be the main motivation. The my only motivation with an event is I want to know who the top 1% of MFM listeners are. And this is a extremely selfish request which is over time actually not through me but through my business partner Ben Levy. People go to Ben and they're just like dude I love MFM. So he'll be like, "Oh, you know this the founder of that really cool thing we we eat, that that place we go, that product we use. Yeah, he loves MFM." And then I get to meet him in text.
I'm like I'm like, "It's insane that we don't know who the most interesting listeners are. That's who I want to do the event with and for." And just purely out of selfishness because I want to meet them. And also, it'd be cool, I think, if they met each other. And I think that would just be the fun version of doing an event that I'm most interested in. So if we can figure out what I call the MFM 1% event, that's what I want to do. Okay, got it. So 1% means like a 1enter and that most interesting.
So that means curated curated. That means Okay, so you're thinking cur like hund or hundreds or doz 150 curated people and let's make it an awesome retreat, hangout, whatever. Let's invite some friends of the pod who are guests like let's get Andrew and Steph Smith. Let's get other people that they they would also want to meet. But again, like if you if you curate it, to me, that's a room I want to be in because I know I would have a fun time. I would go meet I could in one day meet a bunch of awesome people who are like-minded, who are fans of the show.
That would be the no stress versus get on stage like travel somewhere already bad. Get on stage, have to perform a like some live show for what, you know, I'm sure what I what do I want out of that? I I don't really want anything out of that. Here's another version that I find interesting. So I I I like always brainstorming like what's the opposite? So what's the opposite of the live tour the big show? And my brain went to Tiny Desk. So you know like the NPR Tiny Desk series that they created on YouTube.
Like the vibe is immaculate. It's cool because it's kind of small and intimate rather than mega mega. And you get to see the artist cook. And so I've actually would be curious like if we did our version of Tiny Desk. So, so you've seen like Hormosi does a lot of these where he's he's doing his like workshops and somebody stands up and says, "I have this problem. I'm this guy, you know, here's my business. Here's what I do." Blah, blah, blah. And he's supposed to give him the right answer as the kind of guru on the stage.
And it's it's good, but it's very like a bit sterile, right? Like the vibe of it is like we're in a cold conference room and um you know, we're here for for some some tactics, whereas Tiny Desk has like a different aura to it, a different vibe to it. So I if we had a cool venue that was like almost like compact and we had 20 people who are you know entrepreneurs, entrepreneurs, whatever people who listen to the podcast who are entrepreneurial and then we just kind of spit spitball with them. Like I think both me and you were pretty good at doing this with people like I've done this at a couple of events where I got paid to go do this talk and I threw I just on the drive there I just threw out my deck and I was like you know what I'm going to do?
I'm just going to stand up and be like, "Who's got a B? You're here for you're here to get better and improve your business." Like, you want some value out of this? Tell me what you're doing. Tell me your biggest problem. Let me try to help you right here on the spot. And I did that with like 20 people. And I felt like a magician cuz you get to do a magic trick of like they're stuck and you get them unstuck. Which talk are you referring to? The Mercury one? The Mercury one? Yeah. Cuz I watched that.
That was good. Okay. Um, so me and you doing that together, I think would be pretty fire. Yeah, I agree. That could be cool. We could have like a cool set. We do one in New York, we do one in San Francisco, we do one in wherever else and we take our family, we hang and you know it's it's like a curated event, but that becomes the trick is the live event is a experience, but really it's the content you create off that meaning like you [ __ ] like what Hormos is doing is pretty smart, right?
Like he chops that up into a thousand question and answer clips um where somebody has a problem and then he helps them solve it and then they're like, "Wow, thank you so like, oh my god, yeah, you're right. That becomes like good clip content. And so I think for us, we could do that. And I think it would be I'm very interested pretty easy for us to do. Much easier than like going on stage and like performing comedy or essentially like live entertainment. I'm more interested in that than like hanging out with really successful people.
Like I for some reason I don't love like hanging out with like a like ballers in these type of settings because a I don't feel like googling everyone in advance and seeing if they're on the Epstein list, but also uh it just feels like a it just feels like a pissing match. Uh and and I just like being with like the nobbodyies. But uh yeah, I'm interested in that. Okay, Bernie Sanders of business over here. I'm like, who's the guy Mitt Romney who was like, I don't like poor people. Whatever. Okay, so maybe we do different events.
You do the everybody event in in venue A and I'll be with all the cool, successful people in venue B. It would be great. It's something for everyone. Uh, something I want to do less of. Um, a few things I want to do less of. Do you like doing solo episodes? I hate doing solo episodes. I hate recording to and like looking at a bare screen. Do you? I I don't mind it. I sometimes I like to teach if I have something, but um well, there's two types of solo. One is solo just talking to the camera.
The other is like when there's a guest in New York and it's makes sense for you to hang out with them in person and do the inerson pod and I'm not there or or vice versa. I'm not like those either. I I find those to be way less fun because I'm like, "Oh, okay. This feels a little bit like like work, but when we do them together, it feels more fun. It feels way more fun because it feels like it's sort of like whenever you're around brothers and they each other on the egg each other on mentality.
I don't love solo interviews or occasionally if it's someone who I know that you don't like or you don't care about their topic but it's super interesting to me. I'm like all right I would like the solo time just to go really deep on this one thing. But in general, I prefer duo versus solo for both interviews and talking about stuff. Me too. The only caveat would be there is something cool about in person. You pick up so much more than just doing a remote podcast where they pop on, they pop off at the end of the hour and there's there's not a lot in between.
So, so I think hanging out in person is pretty cool. But I think the production value I do like I I I prefer to watch podcasts that are like that when people are together versus when they're doing a Zoom. And then lastly, like sometime, you know, I like you you were pretty sacred about like what times you're going to record. Whereas I'm like, you know, Ari, if you ask me like, "Hey, this person wants to record on the moon at 2 a.m." I'm like, "Yeah, that's cool." Like, right? Like, have I ever said no? I'm basically like, "Yeah, sure.
What does it matter to me if it's 9:00 a.m. or 9:00 p.m.?" Like, I don't really care. Whereas, I think Sam for you, you're like, "That throws my whole day off. I have a more structured day." Yeah, I think that's the only other times where we do solo is where you can't make it. What do you guys feel about newsletter? I know Sean, you you both Sean and Sam have experience in this realm, but curious what your thoughts are on a branded newsletter, too. There has to be some type of way. Yes. Interesting. There has to be some type of way where it never become where it doesn't become a liability and it only becomes an asset or at least is a liability a small amount of times because the problem with a because neither of us have time to write it.
The problem with saying yes to that is that you're going to say something dumb, you're going to say something it doesn't fit our taste or it's just going to be factually incorrect. And if one of those three things happens and it hurts our reputation, to me I go never do it again. And so as long as we could derisk it, which it will never be 100%, but as long as there's some type of trust there, it is interesting, but that's a huge thing to solve for, right? Yeah. Well, what what to you guys would be interesting, too.
Like, what would you read or what newsletters do you currently read that you're like, "Hey, this is something we'd want to pull from or at least get inspired by." Just takeaways from our episodes. Like, I want that. Yeah. Exactly. just like I don't want to watch listen to every sing like there's so many episodes that we have done where I'm like I need a reminder of that we have 850 just pull out like cool learnings. Yeah. I think basically if it's here's what we just did here's who's coming up and of the just did you know here's like the three or four most interesting stories just in plain speak like oh you know he shared the numbers of how fast they grew.
It turns out year one was this year two was this. Year three was this. No gatekeeping like just here's the best stuff. if you don't have time, like just great. Here's this here's a quick summary, but like that would make me want to go listen or watch an episode. And then if I knew, oh, Thursday, they have this person coming on. That's cool. And then if there was like a little just kind of bullet point section where we can be like, oh yeah, like check this out. Sam uh went viral for this. We're doing this thing.
Uh check out this product we bought. Like, you know, whatever. I'm I'm cool with like a little bit of extra so it's not purely an AI summary of like the episode. I think that would be great and I would be happy to like do the work on this and not write it myself but like Diego who's my head of content was my lead writer for Milk Road. So like you know I basically trained him how to write my style. He did it for two years for Milk Road and was excellent. You know he's really really good at this.
That's a lift that like I think I could have Diego take on that would be worth it if we could drive enough people to it. I think right now there's this conflict which is we tell people hey go to HubSpot to go get this like offer. So then that's where they would go. So this would need to become the main place we're directing people to. And I think, by the way, like way more people would subscribe because they would know like, oh, I'm just going to be getting value from this all the time. That's that's great idea that again, don't know if we want to do um have you guys seen or Sam, do you remember when they were doing those like river community meetup type things?
Yes. So like that was kind of cool for a little bit. people were going uh and the reason I say it was cool is because when I met people who like the podcast, they told me like, "Oh, I'm part of the MFM Denver meetup." And I'm like, "What?" And they were like, "Yeah, we meet up once a month and it's like nine of us and whatever 19 of us, whatever the number is." It's not like a huge group, but they all got to know each other and like we were the common like glue or bond.
Well, that platform has pivoted to becoming like a supper club, like a dinner club. And so it's like a decentralized way to just have like fans of the show opt in to going and getting dinner with like six other people who also like the show. And you know, this selfishly does nothing for us in terms of like I'm not, you know, there's no growth hack. It's not money. It's not any of those things. We're not even going to be there. It's kind of the the barbell approach, right? there's some things that I want to get I want to do things that reach everybody and then it's like what are the things that would just change somebody's life because they would meet a co-founder or they would make a great connection or they would find like friends in their city that they don't otherwise have that are like the unique level of business dork that they are as a I don't know if we should do this.
There's like a lot of liability of like we're we're not in our heads we're like oh this is just you opt in and you it's not our experience but I think fundamentally they'll attribute the experience to us. That's the downside. But the upside would be I think this would be really cool for people to meet other awesome people in their city and that would good karma for the world. What do you guys think of this? We can call it just the other 99%. You know, I love this idea. Personally, I think it's pretty cool. I think it's pretty cool.
I I didn't I loved it and then you were like, "Oh, yeah. It is not out of our It is out of our control." And they'll blame us if it sucks. I I what I would be on board with is if we just said newsletter clips and meetups. If we just did those three things for the next six months, I'd probably be fine with that. Yeah. I I love this idea. It would be cool, too. What if you guys like showed up to one every once in a while and surprised I did? The the dinner groups.
Yeah, I have. I've showed up every once in a while. It's great content, too. I know it's a little different, but uh the Vayner X team was doing this with Gary Vee for a bit where they were doing these branded dinners in different cities and capturing content and just having these really organic conversations and people loved it. Dude, you what Vayner does is hilarious. One time Gary Vaynerchuk, his handle, he DM'd me. He goes, "Hey, Sam, haven't talked to you in forever." Which we are friendly, but not like buddies, but he was like, "Do you want to come to dinner with me?" And I was like, "Yeah, that sounds cool." And I show up and there's like 50 other people there and I was like, "Where's Gary?" And they're like, "Oh, well, he doesn't actually come to these.
It's just me, Nick. I host them on his behalf." Oh my god. I was like, "Really? Can I?" Uh, so uh, that's pretty funny. But yeah, manager. We won't do that. Um, yeah, that sounds cool. Basically, the and the last thing I think that we should focus on guest wise, Sean, is I think that we should I think we don't aim high enough. I think that our guests should probably be super mega popular people and we get them to talk about new stuff that they've not talked about, like ideas or someone no one knows. So, like my mother-in-law, like Sarah Moore, like um a bunch of different people.
But it should be almost a little barbelly where we because I don't think we've done a good job of going after the one out of 10 like popular person. And I don't like having those people just because they're popular. But I do like having them and if they talk about something new and then also I loved I've loved having someone who I like this was a nobody and they were the the most insightful person we I've ever talked to. So is the thing you're saying we should aim higher or or are you saying hey we do a lot of these ones in the middle and let's stop doing those?
Is that what you're saying? Like, are you just saying, "Hey, let's invest more on the the ends," or are you saying, "Let's avoid the middle?" I'm mostly saying the first thing that you just said. Yeah. Another one of those memorable episodes was when Sean brought his former He's your former chief of staff. Who is Sean? Yeah. When he was like 22. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And that felt like Yeah. It was like totally unique. Like no other podcast was going to have him on. It's like Theo Von bringing on like the Amish kid. Yeah, the Amish kid was my favorite episode.
I love the Amish kid. So, I would like to go a little bit uh higher and lower, you know, like um I think I take a lot of pride that I am like this and our podcast is like this where I enjoy hanging out with the with you know, world leaders and movers and shakers and also I I enjoy equally enjoy hanging out with someone who has done something not impressive at all but is very insightful and has some wisdom that I want to learn from. Um, and interesting related to that, what I have noticed I have found I've get the most joy out of is when we have old people.
I don't know a better way to say that, but I love having old people on. I'm talking like 70 year plus. I have loved learning from those types of people. I like it. Um, we've done so many different episode types. Is there one type we should be doing a lot more of? Is there one type we should be doing less of? Is there a new type you're itching to do? Like, does anyone have ideas on content types that we want to double down, abandon, or try? For some reason, I'm I think I'm a I think I'm a much softer person than you, and I like I I enjoy some sometimes less hard-hitting stuff, but let's just say we talked about like ra uh raising children or like finding your passion or be or finding happiness, which is like Arthur Brooks, um or parenting, which I don't think we've ever talked about here.
Does that stuff interest you, Sean, on learning those things? For sure. I think we should do more of those cuz when we had Graham Weaver on pretty much none of that, right? We do. Well, it we only do it when it's inadvertent, but Graham Weaver was a good example of that where to me, he's an inspirational guy who has all these cool ways to live a wonderful life. And it just so happens to be that he was really successful at business. But I think that we could for sure have some of these I I don't know what else to describe it, but like I I've listened to Arthur Brooks.
You know who that is? Yeah. Like I would love to talk to people like that, but also there's like a variety of people in that category. Some of them are totally unknown, but like they've done some cool research paper or some like data driven way to like raise better children or be happier or find your passion or die thinking I lived a full life and I'm happy. Like things like that, right? Uh okay, down for that for sure. a format I love is you guys are constantly consuming interesting things. Sean, not so much books for you, but we're working we're working on Massachusetts.
Hey, and then you're turned a new leaf. You're also everywhere. Yeah. But but but you haven't turned pages. Deunked. Um and you're professional explainers. And it's like basically like if my best friend can explain like this book he or she has read in like 20 minutes. Like that's way more that's just a much more fun way of getting the information. Sam, I wanted to hear what you thought about this cuz you read a lot. You read a lot more than me. Uh you read different stuff than me. So I don't know exactly how this works.
I'm not trying to create a book club, but I do want to find excuses where the reading I'm doing coincides with my MFM prep, right? like two for one. And so is there a format where we could both like either whether we read the same book and we break it down or we each bring a book and like I tell you what you would get out of like I basically tell you what's in it. You tell me what's in this and we kind of like rate it ourselves and so we know which books to skip, which books to definitely go go check out.
Um are you interested in that? Yeah, I think it should be quarterly. like the bad the the things that shaped my quarter. Like I'm reading a like I'm reading this Maverick. I almost am finished with this. It's about a Brazilian business guy who like runs his business via democracy which is strange. Didn't hook me right away. Did that one hook you? No, but because I've only highly recommended so I just it's in that weird category of like it's probably good but I don't like it. I'm still judging my opinion on it. I just finished Barack Obama's biography.
Uh, the biggest takeaway is that he seems like a nice guy, but total psychopath just like every other president. He was like telling he was telling Michelle like, "Hey, I'm going to run for president." And she was like, "Honey, please don't do this. We're happy. I don't want this." And he goes, "You're going to not only go along with it, but I'm putting you on stage and you're going to start traveling and you're going to campaign for me." And she was like, "Please don't do this." And he goes, "Look, Michelle." And then he turns it on and he goes, "For every young brown kid out there, I can be the beacon of hope.
I can let them know that they can do anything they they set their mind to. And she was like, "You fine." That was my big takeaway, that story. That was my favorite part from this book. And then I'm reading an informal guy guide to work wear, which is a style of clothing. So, long story short, I love reading lots of books and I could for sure come with stories once a quarter on books that I and like what the big stories and takeaways are that I've learned. Patrick Oonessy does this great thing at the end of every episode where you ask them, "What's the kindest thing anyone's ever done to you?" And it's like this softening question for every successful person where they give a heartfelt story.
Um like either we steal that exact question or we come up with our version of those questions. I think one like tradition or ritual question would be great and like such a small thing but would add to what we do. uh dire CEO, he did a similar thing where at the end of every episode he would have the guest write a question for the next guest and then he would tell them, hey, we have a a guest and you know Barack Obama was here last week and he wrote this question for you and it's just like this cool mechanic.
So I think one ritualistic question would be awesome. So like Ari, I don't know if you have ideas, but like I kind of want to like put that in your court and I feel like you might help us come up with something there. The other one I was thinking about like acquired but for everyman businesses. So I get really into studying the backstories of random products that I see or little businesses. So it's like you know that sauce bitching sauce that's like in Whole Foods. It's like a whatever some sauce brand called [ __ ] and Sauce.
It's like you know there's got to be a story behind some sauce called [ __ ] and Sauce that ended up on the shelf of a Whole Foods in the last 5 years. Part of me is like, would it be interesting if we picked these like businesses that are in everybody knows them, but you don't know the story of them. You don't know how they really took off. And we we already do this during episodes where it's like, "Oh, dude, I do." You know, the real story behind like the Stanley mug. It used to be for construction workers and then like it died pretty much.
And then these moms in Utah picked it up and they it was all about like mom staying hydrated and it became the status symbol and blah blah blah blah blah blah. And like the guy who used to run Crocs now runs Stanley and he's using the Crocs playbook there, right? Like there's like interesting stuff there. And so I wonder if we did a like kind of the acquired thing where we both pick a business out on. It's just that one business. Uh it's kind of like how I built this, but it's just Sam and John riffing on what we thought was cool from the story for recognizable everyday businesses that we think have cool backstories.
That sounds great. I just think that we do that. I don't think we do it in a way that would be a standalone package. So what would the standalone pack uh stand package would be like the title and thumbnail basically make you a promise that like you're going to learn this and then we both have studied it enough versus today typically one of us knows a lot more about it than the other which is okay. It's okay to do that but like uh and then we start the episode and we end the episode and we've delivered on that promise that like you're going to hear about this thing and we're going to tell you the story, the ups, the downs, the how they how they how they made it happen.
um the coolest stuff from this brand. Okay. Yeah, I think that's great. I just I don't know how to make it um actionable, but that sounds awesome. Like what you'd want to do for that? I think maybe for now we just put our put it on our radar so that the next time you or I thinks of a business like that or we see one or we start to hear the backstory of it, we say, "Hey, hey, let's try that thing." And then we like use the the authentic uh interest in that thing that like in the moment before it perishes and we decide to like try this like a focused episode on that one thing.
And it's like, what can we call it? So we so we like what can we reference this? Uh, so CNBC does this thing on YouTube that's called like make it. It's like their make it series. I love it, dude. I love it. And they do an amazing job of these, right? So like um they're they'll do one on like what's a what's a popular one they did? Like they did one on the Yeezys and it's like uh the story of how Kanye built Yeezy, right? And it's like all right. So that's like Yeezy. I'm you know maybe I see somebody wearing the slides.
I'm like that was actual story. And by the way, I think I actually recently heard there's a very interesting story about this. The there was a guy who built who built or bought the factory first and had this game plan and then went to Kanye and then like, you know, figured it out. And I don't know the full story, but like sounds like there was something interesting there that it didn't start from Kanye. It actually started from some guy who bought a shoe factory, you know. So, okay. I don't know. Maybe we So, we maybe we can as code name for ourselves call it these like make it like a make it style episode.
Do you want to do you like when we do screen shares? Yes, in theory. Like I love to see when somebody pops up in a screen share. It's sort of exciting like somebody took their shirt off or something. I want to do more artifact episodes or something like that where they like share their screen. It could be if this would only work if the person was particularly interesting, but it could be like if we're talking about someone's day, it's like, "Show me your calendar right now." Or if we're talking about a question that you ask or I you asked once and I stole it.
Uh is how do you invest your money of like show me let's do a pie chart right now. Dude, we should do that with guests before in the pre prep. We should have them send us a screenshot of their calendar. Maybe their like home screen of their phone, like what apps they have on their phone. And um like maybe or what Chrome plugins they use. Like for example, No, I'm being serious. I love looking at people's Chrome plugins or I love looking like is their desktop clean or dirty and like how do they organize it?
Like I love like they can just like tell me how you organize your workflows. It could be from Chrome plugins to the website that that that you use on a regular basis. I love that stuff because I'm just looking for I hate using this word, but every bit of alpha. So, it's like, oh, you use this like you Sean use a Chrome plugin or used to where it reminds you of your goals that I'm like, show me that. Yeah, I like it. Uh, I also just think even if it's not like alpha, it's just like takes them out of whatever routine they were in and we get we're going to find something personal that nobody's ever asked them about or said, you know, some something that's idiosyncratic to them, right?
Like how they how they roll. You know, if you if I see somebody's desk, I learn a lot. You know what I mean? Like I remember sitting in Monisha's house and I'm doing the episode with him and on his desk he's got this name this like this sign that says trouble is opportunity. And it's like, wow, there's got to be a story behind that. That didn't just land there by default. That's a philosophy. That's a story that's important to you. If you look at Warren Buffett's desk, he has a box called the two hard pile.
It's like, what's that, Warren? What is the two hard pile? And then, you know, you wouldn't otherwise know those things. So, I think if we can get like whether it's their calendar or their desk or their iPhone home screen, something like that, I think will unlock a different angle with guests than anybody else is doing. And then the last thing that I want to bring up there we h this has only happened a handful of times but one thing that we have to try to do and I think Ari this is going to fall on you is making sure so whenever we have someone on who has a checkered past for example Martin Skelli I do feel a sense of responsibility that we have to ask him about his behavior and with him it was okay but there's been times where I didn't know someone had a checkered past and I'm like h I don't feel like becoming a show that confronts people.
I don't want that energy right now. But it's like I both I feel if we have that person on I'm like gh I have we have to mention it and also I don't want to Yeah. There's a responsibility and then also this is not what I want to be doing. So you want me to jump in in the recording and confront. What were you asking Ari there? What was the request to Ari? Oh, like somehow you have to like just make sure that there's nothing like crazy that we that we are aware. Like for example, we had the guy who dealt in with um uh the guy in Italy, Thomas, and his story was amazing.
And then out of nowhere, we found out that he was got in trouble for fraud and I'm like, you looked up the headline like mid-recording and you were just like, it's not good. I was like, h I have to call this out. I don't want to. I don't want to. We were getting along so well. But you have to you have to say something and I just want to minimize that amount or it has to be worth it where um like I think Martin Squirrely is worth it. I think he's an interesting person and he's done stuff I don't like and we will say you have done stuff we don't like and also you're interesting.
So it just has to be worth it. Yeah. Cuz I don't think the answer is we don't have anyone on who has No, that's not what I'm saying. Liabilities, right? It's just like you have to mention it or ask about it and we have to make sure that that is the the it's worth it. Yeah. I just don't know what the solution you're suggesting really is like what do you want to change? Is there a change you want or you just want us to know how you feel? Cuz that's also okay. Well, a little bit is Yeah.
I'm covering my ass. No. Uh it's mostly just like Ari just like in the way in the same way that Ari protects us. Like for example, she'll be like, "Hey, you said something here and that came off really bad. you like like one time I made fun of Simone Biles or something and she was like uh that joke didn't land like when you said John Morgan was smoking weed which I don't think he said he did he did I'm going to double check that by the way it's really funny 99% of the time or he's like hey yeah that part we should take that out right and Sam's like what no that was awesome that you almost never strike it and I'm like dude are you sure like that was mine that was funny I guess I don't know just like keep an eye out is all I'm saying.
Um I don't think I have anything else to say, but basically like Sean, the takeway for me is like newsletters cool. I'm on board, clips on board, meetups on board, and talking about like happiness and parenting and some of that other stuff we're open to. Yeah. So I I think if we were going to say what are the three we're going to do, here's the rocks I see. Cassie's going to raise a Clipper army. And Cassie, I'm specifically saying this to you as a challenge, which is like you're joining the team. You're here to kick butt.
This is the butt you we want kicked. And to the extent that we learn how much of a buttkicker you are, we'll be you'll be judged on how good you do at doing this one thing. Even if you did five other really fantastic, wonderful other things, this is the thing we're asking you to do because we think this is the biggest thing and is it's not easy either to do this. Like this takes some figuring out. This takes some cleverness. This takes some like, you know, you're going to have to, I don't know, get in some Discords and, you know, go have some conversations with people to figure out how the hell this all all this stuff works.
So that's the Clipper Army. That's number one. Then in terms of guests, I think Sam, you brought up like go higher, go unknown and go into the areas of life that we are are important to us but we traditionally haven't done on the podcast which is sometimes it's kids like you know raising kids, it's happiness, it's like you know whatever topics that are about the human condition. Miss Yeah. Like what is there anything Sean that you want to add to that? I I think there's probably just going to be some others that come up when they come up.
Like I would say actually investing has fall investing probably started in that category, right? Like we were talking about business ideas and whatnot. Then like you and I both also want to become smarter as investors. So we started asking questions there. Well, now we're dads. We want to get better at that. And like not in the boring sort of cliche way, but like what's the non-obvious stuff that matters? By the way, I also think we should ask our guests who've got kids, like what's something parenting wise you do that's pretty like atypical or nontraditional that you believe in?
For example, a bunch of entrepreneurs I know have told me the same exact thing, which is they take a one-on-one trip with each kid um when they become like six, seven, eight years old and that becomes like a sacred like core memory with them and that kid. And it's a totally different dynamic cuz you're always with the full group and the dynamic changes when you go one-on-one. I've heard that like seven times. It's okay. I got to be a dummy at some point not to just go do that. Um, if they all keep saying it, but you know, you wouldn't know otherwise unless you ask that question.
Let's pair let's add a third one, a third third rock, which is these like guest prep other angles. So, we talked about asking them for their their screenshots of their their their space, their desk, their computer, whatever. As well as like asking them questions, you know, maybe our version of the what's the kindest thing anyone has ever done to you? a a great closer question that we can just do ritualistically and build a tradition off that. I would say for now we don't also try to add meetups like I think we should do this and like spend 90 days like actually doing these things and then come up for air and if we've actually done these well then we've earned the right to go try new more things.
Awesome. Uh no comment. Um I think yes I think that was great. Okay. Um great. Thanks for agreeing to do that in public guys and uh for people who listen to that. I don't know. Hopefully that was interesting for you guys. We We thought we would do it in public. Maybe you get to see how the sausage is made a little bit. All right, Sam, send them away. All right. God bless. That's the pod. Wait, no. What did I say last time? God. Oh, you're a blessing. You're a blessing.
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